Spring is the time of year when many high school seniors are either rushing to complete college applications or waiting to hear from their college or colleges of choice, living in hope that the financial aid award will be sufficient, and moving into the final phase of the serious deliberation that leads to choosing a college.
Every part of the college search process is important, and all the information gathered is useful to gain the fullest understanding about which college fits best with a prospective studentâ??s interests and plans. Understandably, those students and their parents want to know about the rigor of academic programs, the quality and engagement of faculty, all curricular and extra-curricular options, and the campus community atmosphere. In addition, one area admissions counselors are increasingly asked about is â??outcomes.â? How does a Christian college prepare a student for life after college? What are the benefits of attending and graduating from a Christian College versus the financial cost?
A recent Christianity Today article by Steve Henderson, President of Christian Consulting for Colleges and Ministries, Inc., addresses an outcome that should be of particular interest to Christian students and parents. In the article, titled â??A Question of Price versus Cost,â? Henderson makes the following points: Because â??the college years are one of the most significant times in a studentâ??s search for identityâ?¦the literature and the researchâ?¦suggest a strong link between a young personâ??s choice of a college and their short-term and long-term commitment to Christian faithâ?¦The results of nearly 25 years of research consistently reveal that those who do not attend a Christ-centered college will experience a decline in religious values, attitudes, and behaviors during collegeâ?¦More than 52 percent of incoming freshmen who identify themselves as born-again upon entering a public university will either no longer identify themselves as born-again four years later or, even if they do still claim that identification, will not have attended any religious service in over a year.â? And one final quote from that article, â??The bottom line is this: if the past is a fair indication of the future, at least half and possibly over two-thirds of our kids will step away from their faith while attending non-Christian colleges and universities.â?
Based not only on research but also on Hendersonâ??s personal experience with a daughter who attended a non-Christian college and lost her way spiritually for about a decade, Henderson asks parents to consider whether they can afford not to send their child to a Christ-centered college. A college education is a big-ticket item, no matter what type of school is chosen. Henderson encourages families to look closely at and give due weight to the potentially life-long effect of whichever college community is chosen â?? Christian or secular. College years are a time of serious examination of personal faith. Students at colleges that arenâ??t supportive of Christian faith can become confused, at best, or more likely, skeptical of the Christian teaching of their youth.
Henderson also emphasizes early in his article, â??I neither mean to imply that Christian colleges are perfect places with perfect people, nor that Christian students can never emerge from secular schools with strong Christian faith still intact. Neither statement is true. What I do know, however, is that immersion in a Christ-centered residential, educational community is an incredible opportunity for Christian young men and women who want to learn and grow spiritually, intellectually, emotionally, etc.â?
Christian high school students, as well as those who know and counsel them, should give serious consideration to the benefits of living and learning in this kind of college environment. At its best, education at the collegiate level should begin an honest evaluation and infusion of both faith and scholarship. The dual influence of academic discipline that creates the ability to think critically balanced with moral and spiritual integrity help prepare Christians to positively impact a global society.
Christian college graduates attend some of the most prestigious graduate schools in the country and around the world. They go on to work in inspiring careers after graduation. At least one is in Baghdad assisting the Constitutional Drafting Committee in Iraq. Others are members of Harvardâ??s medical school faculty or are practicing medicine. They work for the top companies or have started successful businesses of their own. Others have chosen to work to develop sustainable agriculture in developing countries, aid in humanitarian relief and poverty reduction or serve in the top levels of our countryâ??s government.
The academic rigor of the top Christian colleges is leavened by the incorporation of faith and spiritual discipline that will produce the next generation of Christ-lead and inspired servant leaders that our culture cries for.
With those potential outcomes in mind, Christian high school students should learn as much as possible about the numerous fine Christian colleges and universities throughout this country. Preliminary information is available on the web at college search sites such as CCCU.org and Christiancollege.com. Also, sign up for college mailing lists. College mailing lists are a great resource, as you only need to sign up once to start receiving helpful information throughout the year. Also, remember to schedule time to visit each campus that seems like a good fit â?? including an overnight stay in a resident hall. Visiting a college campus in person and sleeping over helps students solidify if a school is a good fit by finding out what itâ??s like to live, as well as study, there.
The college years are a unique time in life for the formation of habits of the heart and mind and relationships that will shape life for years to come. Students (and their parents) should consider a college that offers serious academic and personal preparation for life â?? along with a framework of people and programs that nurtures and strengthens Christian understanding and commitment.
Nancy Mering
http://www.articlesbase.com/college-and-university-articles/how-attending-a-christian-college-can-change-your-life-99557.html
#1 by ichbineinegurke on June 16th, 2009
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Christian approach to a life changing event…?
Before I start I just want to ask that anyone who is going to be intolerant, or just make a rude remark because of the christian theme this question is going to pose, just please find it within yourself to restrain. I mena seriously, I am not going to bother you, push my beliefs or anything…I just want some advice from people who believe as I do.
Ok, so let me break it all down for you guys
I am a simple man, 18 years old, who thought I had life all figured out.
I had the woman of my dreams by my side, God had control of my life (or so I thought) and I knew where my life was going to go.
Here’s where life comes in and throws me a curveball. Two weeks ago…the girl of my dreams tells me that she needs some time and space. So we end things…me, in a bitter storm of tears…I take some time to really step back and analyze my life. And I realize that I never really put God first in my life. He was never really my priority in the relationship, and he hasn’t been the one to whom I am giving my heart to.
So my girl and I still talk, still serve god together in the ministries we were both involved in, hang out a couple of times here and there, and are basically just good friends now. We talked through everything and realized we both need to step back and evaluate where life is going to take us, and what God has in store for us.
Neither one of us really wants this to be over…and we really want something to come of this, even if its just friendship. But we are both ready to place it all in God’s hands.
We are spending time getting to know eachother as just friends, and talking and sharing more now than ever before in our relationship (isn’t it amazing how God will bring that out in someone!!!) and it’s going so greatly. And I can’t help but think, that no matter what happens, something good is going to come of this.
But this past weekend I attended an amazing youth conference called Aquire the Fire. There I was introduced to a place called Honor Academy, which is a christian internship program, that gives you 30 credit hours for college, offers LIFE CHANGING godly experience, and beautiful experience to grow deeper with the lord, and strengthen that bond. It seemed like it was calling to me, that God was saying GO do this….
The hitch is…this is a year long thing…and its in Texas…and I am in missouri…and there will be little opportunity to return home…
That means a whole year away from family, friends, life here, the life I’ve known…and most importantly…a year away from the relationship I am so longing to work on, and deepen….
I already have my acceptance letter to a Christian College here in missouri, and I am going to go into the field of youth ministry…no doubt about that…And in respect to the college and the path in life…this year away is the most amazing thing to ever happen…not only will it equip me for life challenges, and strengthen my relationship with God…but it will reflect amazingly on the college record, and my ability as a minister to the world.
It’s just tearing at my heart, that the one person in this world I love so selflessly, and so completely…is the one thing I would have to give up on for an entire year….
I mean, I can understand that God has his will, and that it is divine and perfect. And that if this is meant to be between the two of us…then he will bring it together in the end. But its hard, and I can’t begin to imagine the struggles I will have to go through…
I guess what I am really asking here…is for some emotional support. Maybe someone who has been in a similar situation…someone who can influence my strength and resolve for the Lord…someone who can feel my pain, and sympathize…
I just need to know if this is right…
#2 by Julia B on June 16th, 2009
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If it is true love it won’t die. God must come first or everything else will fall apart.
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#3 by Happy to Scrap on June 16th, 2009
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She wants to be friends. That’s all she wants to be.
Go off and live your life. If she wanted to continue to pursue the relationship, she wouldn’t have broken it off in the first place. She is letting you down softly because she is a good Chrisitan girl and concerned about your feelings. Perhaps she wants to retain your friendship.
If its meant to happen, whats a year anyway?
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#4 by bigA on June 16th, 2009
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“It’s just tearing at my heart, that the one person in this world I love so selflessly, and so completely…is the one thing I would have to give up on for an entire year….”
I’m not Christian but reading this piqued my interest. You seem to still be conflicted about who the priority is in your life. Early in your question you state that the break up made you realize how you had been ignoring God. Now you have to opportunity to give all your attention and you’re not sure you want to.
Figure out your priorities and make a decision. As long as it’s what you want, theirs no need to feel grief or guilt about the decision.
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#5 by cajuninafrica on June 16th, 2009
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How do you know that God hasnt toned things down in her mind to give you time to persue this year long adventure? If you want to keep God in charge then dangit give him the flippin steering wheel already
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#6 by Mama on June 16th, 2009
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You are right. God does have a perfect plan for you and your girlfriend. You need to continue to bathe yourself in prayer, but follow his plan and go to your school. Allow this time away to give you time to grow as a young man, spiritually, and it will get you ready for your helpmate. Could you imagine having anything better that the young woman you have now? What if? What if God has another plan? So for now, I would say, focus on God, and school and He will get the rest in order for you. Keep Him first! Good Luck.
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#7 by ross on June 16th, 2009
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I can assure you that you will get all the confirmation and support from God for this that you need. Sure, it can come from people, but also from dreams and thoughts that come as you open your will to God. God does not work in pain or fear, He shows you truth and love.
You will continue learning to follow God's voice instead of yours and her egos. That knowledge will make a strong relationship with God that allows you two to serve instead of making God's will a backdrop to your relationship
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similar situation now.
#8 by Bri S on June 16th, 2009
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when God says ‘Go’ ,you shut your mouth and GO!!!!
its hard! i know! but if God wants this to work for you and your girl he’ll definitly get you guys together!!!
ill be praying for your decision…hope its the right one
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#9 by James (Y) on June 16th, 2009
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I understand how you feel….to a smaller degree. I’m in high school, and in order to participate in my youth group’s discipleship class, I have to cut off some school clubs and stop my daily talking with some friends (and that talking isn’t just blabber). It’ll require a lot of time….and make me a leader in my youth group
This is right for you. In the case, it’s either God or not. Since you’ve been working on putting God first, this is the perfect oppurtunity for you to step up and grab a chance. If you can follow through on this, imagine how good your relationship with God will be. Yes, it will be hard to keep in contact with the girl you’ve been seeing, but you can always exchange daily emails. Plus, if you strengthen your relationship with God, you can strengthen your relatinoship with HER THROUGH God. You can get more involved with church with her when you get back.
I don’t konw how much you want to be with her, but PUT GOD FIRST. It’ll definitely be worth it. It’ll be a giant test of your faith and committement, but coming out of this you won’t regret it. I don’t mean to make you worry, but even if the girl finds someone else or grows to distant with you over the year to even see you again, then she wasn’t for you. You can chase God or her; but if she isn’t waiting for you for a year, then you shouldn’t have to wait for her for a year. Not saying that it will happen, but just trying to force in some logic in why you should and what should happen….
good luck, good luck, good luck; i’ll pray for you
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#10 by me4him338 on June 16th, 2009
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First off I admire your faith. I think only you and God know what is right. You have to pray earnestly and God will answer. If this is love a year will be good for both of you to grow in the Lord. Put HIM first and everything else will follow. You said you felt you we not putting God first and now is your time to do that. God uses these kind of situation to test us. Stand firm in your faith and remember HE will lead your path. God bless you.
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#11 by aduncan on June 16th, 2009
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Hi, I have been kind of dealing with the same thing. I have no guy in my life really but I am in the process of possibly changing or adding a major and maybe even going to a different college. The thing that has been helping me a lot is just praying and asking God to show me what His will is for my life. If the doors are opening for this and everything seems to be falling in place for it then it seems as if God is maybe telling you to do this. It also sounds like an awesome experience and I definitely think it can change your life. A year is a long time to be gone but it seems it would be worth it. This can also show you the strengths and weaknesses in your relationship with this young lady. Being several hundred miles or so apart may really strengthen your relationship and show the two of you that you can make a relationship work despite how far away you are from one another.
I guess the only thing you can do is pray and trust God to show you where to go?
This quote has been really helpful to me:
“Trusting God completely means having faith that He knows what is best for your life. You expect Him to keep His promises, helping you with problems,and do THE IMPOSSIBLE when necessary”
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#12 by Lovely P on June 16th, 2009
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Well young man, I can tell that you are no dummy when it comes to the Lord. Although I’m sure I don’t have to tell you, I’m going to anyway. God WILL NOT put more on you then u can bare. If God said move then what do you do?…….MOVE! Real love is going to keep. Read the following scriptures for further encouragement and revelation.
Mark 10:29. And Jesus answered and said, Verily I say unto you, There is no man that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands, for my sake, and the gospel’s,
10:30. But he shall receive an hundredfold**** NOW IN THIS TIME!!!!****, houses, and brethren, and sisters, and mothers, and children, and lands, with persecutions; and in the world to come eternal life.
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#13 by NANA on June 16th, 2009
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First & foremost God is to be first in your life before anything or anyone; now if this is truly God wanting you to go to college in Texas then you should go. God has a plan for your & her life, trust Him completely & allow yourself to grow spiritually & see what happens. You’re still young & Jesus is soon to come back, pray & ask God to help you make the right decision. I’ll be praying.
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#14 by Diane D. on June 16th, 2009
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Abraham was promised a son. That son was Isaac. Yet God asked him to offer him up as a sacrifice.
What you are experiencing is one of those times in you life when you will have to make a choice. Will you follow and do what God is leading you to do. Or will you chose another path. The deal is sometimes God does ask us to lay all on the alter. What will you do? Will you go with the leading of God (exercise faith in Him) or will you go your own way and rely on your own wisdom and reason? Life is made of such choices.
Our Father of faith Abraham BELIEVED GOD. His over arching achievement is HE OBEYED because He believed.
In a way the question is do you value God above all else. Willinglying choosing the hard and painful way, when it is asked of you by Jesus, can be a fragrant love offering to Him.
‘The kingdom of God is like a treasure a man found in a field.
When he found it, he went away and in his joy sold everything he had to buy the field.’ — my paraphrase.
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